Not that I thought he didn't care, but dh isn't one to express his emotions about how IF effects him. Well, today we had yet another birthday party to go to. I have to say, dh is very patient with my large family, fourteen nieces and nephews, and all the events and parties that go along with it. But today wasn't a good day for a party... we just had a less than positive RE appointment, and dh begrudgingly made an appointment with the urologist this week... basically, not a good week.
So, on the way to the party dh expressed how he hated going to these parties because he feels stupid being the only one there w/o a kid. I told him he didn't have to go, but he said that wasn't it, he just felt out of place and sick of being the ones w/o kids. Not that I am at all *happy* that dh feels this way, but it does show he cares. Sometimes I feel like I am the basketcase, and nothing effects him. I guess it's a reminder that he has similar feelings, but is just less likely to express them on a daily basis.
Needless to say, we may be scaling down the # of kids b-day parties we attend in the future.
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